After following the man in black, there was already a special way to verify whether a man was a virgin or not. Just by looking at his physique, one could tell—much like how some men have their methods to discern if a woman is a virgin.
What I just said was merely to settle the Monk down and to joke with him!
"Benefactor, don't make a fuss. How can we monks drink alcohol and eat meat? Wouldn't that turn us into wine-loving Monks? As a monk, I've never heard of taking a wife, unless I return to secular life as a Secular Disciple!"
The Monk, red-faced and embarrassed, wouldn't glare or resort to violence like those men even if he felt humiliated!
Bian Shasha found the Monk in front of her extremely amusing. Such a man might have another side to him; perhaps he wouldn't beat his wife, making him a good candidate for a husband!