Change, change are words everyone should believe in. Can we keep the same behavior? Can we live in the same way? Can we keep thinking according to the previous background? The answer for sure is no, we need to change or be changed. These two possibilities are offered to us. So, it's better to take the initiation by ourselves to be better controlling the situation. Otherwise, we find ourselves obliged to accept that. Concerning me, in the beginning, I was manipulated by the life's conditions. I used to do what life obliged for. But finally, I understood that I need to control things by myself. I must be wise and intelligent she I want to do anything how ever it is. By doing so, I put myself in the confort zone.